About This Blog

You’ve somehow come across LoveScienceandNat20s.com! Welcome!

Why Love, Science, and Nat20s? It’s how I’m building my family and life overall: the love we share, the necessary science of infertility treatments, and a lot of luck.


I’m Abby, the 30-something blog owner. I split my time between my job as a marketing assistant and my role as a wife and mom, all while trying to squeeze in time for my geekier hobbies (D&D, various video games… okay, let’s be real, I mostly mean World of Warcraft, writing, reading, attacking baking projects with some level of success, and other sundry nerdy pursuits). I started this blog at the suggestion of some friends who have been following my infertility journey–one that’s been going on for about five years now (not counting the year I was pregnant with my son; more on him later).

Other characters likely to make an appearance on this blog include:


Kyle. My husband of almost six years and life partner of more than ten. My best friend, the butter to my bread, the breath to my life. He’s a web UI developer with a passion for building worlds. He’s also the DM of our Saturday night D&D game and is just as much of a nerd as I am–if not more!


Kat. My very dearest friend, practically one half of me, for the past seven years. She moved from California to live with me and Kyle about three and a half years ago, and we’ve been having a blast ever since. She’s an artist and keeps me in check–I say, “I want to touch the sun!” and she says, “First, clean the dishes.”

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Sam. My son, the oldest and currently only child in the family. He’s our Nat 20–the lucky result of more than a year of trying to get pregnant, somehow born with really high stats. He’s almost three, scary smart, and already a huge nerd.


Tinkerbell. My ornery cat, turning seventeen in September. She likes to yell at me to feed her and then sleep with her butt on my face.

Glad to see you here, and hope you enjoy your stay! Happy reading!